When You Are Hurt.........
Blog NO. - 27
Date - 31 Dec 2017
I am a Rajesh Khanna fan and his histrionics and Kishorda's song " Jindagi ke safar me gujar jate he mukam , vo fir nahi aate" are my favourite past time. HOW often we are hurt and the cause of hurt , most of the time , a trival reason.
I wonder if ever we try to understand the real reason for the hurt , is always our belief being neglected. We call it self respect. With passage of time, our look at various perspectives of life are more or less fixed. We are not ready to mediate ourselves. Often we consider a victory or loss to our belief. Loss causes hurt.
In every relationship, there are difference of opinions. We must not expect a common perception to every situation. It is futile to convince others and win over. We must not feel our inability to convince as a loss and a hurt .
Have we ever thought for a moment that the opposite party may have fixed views and ideas just like us and exactly of opposite to ours? Convincing has a limitations and there is neither a moral victory nor a painful hurt , if ever our efforts are endresulted into success or failure.
Let us have a new year resolution:
I DO MY THINGS AND YOU DO YOURS
I AM NOT IN THIS WORLD TO LIVE UP TO YOUR EXPECTATIONS
AND YOU ARE NOT UPTO MINE IF BY CHANCE WE FIND IT SAME IT IS BEAUTIFUL
Best Wishes for new year.
Dr Ajay Shah